|While writing a novel:||Oh my god this is the best line of dialogue ever I am such a genius this is all gold|
|While editing said novel:||What the actual fuck is this shit|
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Do not complain. Make every effort to change things you do not like. If you cannot make a change, change the way you have been thinking.